The last thing that I want to say concerning goals it that there has to a mutual respect for each other’s goals. You need to support your husband and your husband needs to support you. Goals are also a wonderful way to increase communication about something that isn’t always easy to talk about. It can be painful and sometimes you just don’t want to think about it but open communication is one of the best ways to get through the pain and the heart ache.
In many of the infertility books that I have read, they always talk about the fact that infertility tends to tear marriages apart and I feel it is because of a lack of communication and understanding. So a word of caution, make sure that you are making realistic goals that both of you believe you can accomplish. As a team, the journey of infertility to end goal of fertility will be much more enjoyable.
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