While family can be very supportive they can at times they can say things that really can hurt. If you have a parent that never had problems getting pregnant, they may not be able to fully understand what you are going through. They may say thing that they think will help but don’t help at all.
I think my favorite saying that people is, “Oh just be patient, it will happen.” That saying does have some truth to it because it may happen but it also may not happen, but at the time, it is probably the last thing that you want to hear.
When dealing with family, they are emotionally involved in this trial too. They want you to have a baby; they want to be grandparents, aunts, or uncles too. Keep them in the loop with what is going on but if you being met with resistance or not as much support as you hoped, it may be hard to not be frustrated, but try not to stress family ties over this trial. Unfortunately they may not ever fully understand but they are still your family.
I think my favorite saying that people is, “Oh just be patient, it will happen.” That saying does have some truth to it because it may happen but it also may not happen, but at the time, it is probably the last thing that you want to hear.
When dealing with family, they are emotionally involved in this trial too. They want you to have a baby; they want to be grandparents, aunts, or uncles too. Keep them in the loop with what is going on but if you being met with resistance or not as much support as you hoped, it may be hard to not be frustrated, but try not to stress family ties over this trial. Unfortunately they may not ever fully understand but they are still your family.
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